Thursday, May 31, 2007

It's Shameful

It's shameful.
We, as a country are sending service men and women
into battle and as they come home in flag draped caskets
we dishonor their memories and service by not even
providing for them an adequate funeral.
The families left behind are being insulted and penalized
by being given less than $ 5,000 in funeral allowance by
our federal government. The average funeral cost in
Canada if you can beleive the numbers being quoted in
the media is $ 10- $ 12,000.
I will not dwell on the disgrace our legislators should
feel.
Why is it that the Captain of Canada's World Championship
Hockey Team causes more fervor than this kind of
national insult ?
If our Members of Parliament treat people who give
their lives this kind of lack of respect, is it any wonder
we receive the quality of government we are witnessing
today ?
Is there no sense of priority any more ?
Is there no sense of right and wrong any more ?
Are we completely beyond any moral, ethical,
direction ? Is there no such thing as good and evil ?
It's shameful.

Monday, May 28, 2007

And it was going so well........

I've got it in my head, I've got it in my heart,
Its racing round in melodies I just can't seem to start.
I get new inspiration with every passing cloud
I trip on new ideas every morning as I plod
my way through each black coffee,
But the coffee just won't clear -
The fog - that keeps this song so deep inside

I stammer and I stutter as I hit each different key
the chords are there, the notes ring true, but nothing seems to be
the way it started out - my message now has changed -
Reign in these charging horses or we'll never safe escape -
The dangers that lie hidden -
and the fog - that keeps this song so deep inside.

That is the sun that shines and bathes all we see in light
It is the sun that warms and makes new grasses grow
It is the sun that drives away the mysteries of night -
that bring the fog that keeps this song inside.
That brings the fog that keeps this song inside...

Can't seem to find a shortcut - or a way to make it flow
Can't seem to navigate the course - to follow
I have the sense - with each attempt I'm closer to the goal
And better having launched the ship to find those distant shores
still hidden -
in the fog that keeps this song so deep inside.

D Grose Music 07

Its probably ill-advised of me to begin these "columns"
with song lyrics. Probably scares a lot of folks away.
Not meant to...it's like a pitcher's warm-up tosses - or a
singer doing vocal exercises..it's as close to a stretching
exercise as I ever get....

Master Clubmaker and Professional Clubfitter Dana Wong
of the Village Golf Shop in New Minas knows his stuff !
I am officially on record as endorsing club-fitting and
custom club - making.
I will only add that the care and passion with which the clubmaker
and club fitter carries out the tasks I beleive are as important
as the process.
Everyone who goes to Dana for a fitting and clubs comes away
with the same reaction..." Wow..he really knows his stuff. "
"Wow..he looks at every conceivable detail." and " Must
be nice to love what you do as much as he obviously does!"
And he obviously does love his work.
Dana spent about 4 hours with me one day this winter.
He measured, and re-measured all the while explaining
what and why he was doing it.
I have to admit that as impressed as I was - I remained
somewhat skeptical. I have always beleived that my seven
handicap is the result of my limited ability to execute in
key situations - and my desire to play more than practise.
Short form - it wasn't the tools - it was the technician...
some would say in this instance - the technician and the
tool - are one and the same.
Here it is the end of May and I have now played golf in all
conditions this year ( except prime physical condition
that is ) and I want to say that custom clubs - properly
fitted - make a world of difference. While I have yet to
post any record scores after about ten previous games
I experienced golf on the weekend unlike that which I
have ever experienced...Yes, I still made the customary
mistakes - but the mishits didn't bruise like they have
in the past - and the good shots - and there were plenty -
were sooooo sweet. It was like golf the way golf was meant
to be. There is a lot to be said for standing over an iron with
confidence - knowing the ball will go where it is designed to go.
I could go on - but I won't except to say - that if you love your
golf - book a fitting session with Dana - custom made clubs
from the Village Golf Shop in New Minas is the only way to
go.
Now...had the occasion to play golf at the Links at Penn Hills in
Shubenacadie Monday of the long weekend. Booked a time to
jump in with three members out there. If you remember the
day - it was cold and gray and it had rained both Saturday and
Sunday so you knew it was going to be wet underfoot.
As it turned out my three playing partners had all cancelled -
I trust due to the weather - and I wound up playing with
Herb - a member - Jason the Assistant Pro and Pat DeCoste the
Director of Golf. Now, I've known Pat for several years - but never
been out on the course with him. My gosh...while I didn't play
sterling golf by any stretch of the imagination - the shots that he
and Jason were making look routine...something to watch.
When they tell you that the difference between a pro and an
amatuer is the pro's ability to get up and down - well - there's
a lot to that. Forty or sixty or in one instance 80 yards by your
good drive - well there's a lot to that too - and it does change the
game...but what a day...one cloudy , cold day I'm glad I didn't
miss....although I'm still bitter that my "miracle" skin got cut
on 15....I look forward to an opportunity to do that again -
soon I hope....I think the NS Mid Amatuer at Penn Hills will be a
good one the week of June 20.
Ad Speak...In business and spending too much on advertising ?
In business and not sure you're getting results to justify your
investment ? In business and wondering whether you are doing
anything to protect much less expand your market share ?
You're not alone - and if you are like most businesses advertising
is the last thing you want to deal with..
It's too bad . It's not that difficult.
If you want to know more - email me at dgrose@chumhalifax.com.
I will even buy the coffee if you'd like to sit down and vent for a
few minutes and then find some answers to your marketing and
advertising problems. It's like self help guru the silver fox - Jim Rohn
used to say, " It's Easy !" and you know what..it is.
If you don't want to talk about advertising but you'd like to make
contact - just say " hi " - help me through my writer's block - or
recommend counselling but don't wish to register with blogger -
email is dongrose@eastlink.ca. Love to hear from you...unless you
are one of those people who misunderstood something I said and
were offended...in which case...sorry..probably didn't mean anything
by it.
Til next time...bless...and please listen to the Golf Shop Radio Program
Friday evenings at 6 and Saturday mornings at 8 on 92 CJCH or
at www.cjch.ca streamed live...and register for your weekly newsletter.
Don

Wednesday, May 16, 2007

Sometimes Life Is Just Too Good

A winter's day
A cold and windy winter's day
A dreary, blustery winter's day
a light

A winter night
A cold and windy winter's night
A dreary, blustery winter's night
a torch

A winter walk
A cold and windy winter's walk
A dreary, blustery winter's walk
A spark

A fountain
A warm and soothing, healing, fountain
Wet and warm you close your eyes, a fountain
the seed

A dream
Life renewed, truth restored, a dream
Worth pursuing, you alone, a dream
the reason

D. Grose Music 07

You know - sometimes life is just too good.
My youngest son has just announced he's getting married. Too cool !
Matt and Eliana...even sounds good together. She is a beautiful lady
and a most welcome addition to the family. Her daughter, Kathy whom
we met in Cuba is a sweetie - a marvellous little girl - we loved her the
day we met her. I'm so proud of Matt - and his brother - I am
truly blessed.
Needless to say there's a little excitement around this household.
They will be married in June when we visit them in Fort MacMurray.
And Tyler, Matt's older brother is going to be there too. Nice.
Tyler, from the newly established Calgary Grose clan was home
last week - left last night.
We managed to get two games of golf in and I haven't had
that much fun since I don't know when. I would rather play golf with
Tyler than anybody else I can think of. Having Matt there would make
it perfect. Playing with Tyler reminds me of playing with my father.
It's got the same feel to it. It's so much more than golf.
Now Scrabble on the other hand..that's a game just meant for
"schoolin !"
T-Bone's visit was his first since he ventured west and
he's missed again already.
Cards...Greeting Cards...Probably because I associated card with "report"
they've never meant that much to me..but this year I got two really special
cards on my birthday - one from my wife and one from my mother - that
darn near brought me to my knees. They were really, really nice. I got a card
from my mother-in-law that made me chuckle and then last night in the mail
we got a card from a longtime friend of the family, Mrs. Timmins in Ottawa.
We'd sent her a card on her birthday just as kind of a little surprise - Charlene's
idea as always - and Mrs. Timmins wanted to acknowledge the gesture.
Nice people deserve to have nice things happen to them - and the Timmins
were always cherished friends of my folks who treated me so very kindly.
And - Mr. Timmins - got his very first "hole in one" very recently...
It's just nice.
You know - block out the nonsense and - Sometimes life is just too good.

Bless
Don

Wednesday, May 02, 2007

Tempest in a Septic Tank

Seeeeeeeeeething...I'm just seeeeeeeeeething.
I can't beleive the story that has dominated Canadian TV News
for the last two nights. Shane Doan - the Captain of Team Canada at
the World Hockey Championships.
Almost two years ago an NHL official accused Doan of an anti-Francophone,
on-ice slur. No one beleived it. Teammates, opponents, other officials, the
NHL...the charges were dismissed. Except in Ottawa where a gaggle of
French Canadian MP's used their outrage over the incident to get their
otherwise meaningless personnas on the News.
I am from Montreal...my wife is of French Canadian descent. I love
pea soup ! and Gitanes ! and smoked meat piled high on rye ! But
man oh man - is there no limit to how small our politicians have
become ?
I don't know Shane Doan - but anything I have ever read or heard indicates
that he is a highly decent, principled, ethical, and spiritual model of a man,
much less a hockey player. Shane Doan is one of a handful of hockey players
representing his country ( PQ included ) on strictly a volunteer basis.
He is Captain because he is the best leader for that collection of playoff
castoffs....
The fact that some of our highly paid MP's can find no more meaningful
issues into which to sink their teeth than Doan's suitability as Team Canada
Captain - should be cause for their immediate dismissal -
Any MP in the last 48 hours who has appeared on camera to weigh in on
an issue with as little depth as this has proven how "galactically shameless"
they are.
Health Care, Education, Roads, Fiscal Irresponsibility, Waste, Pollution,
Over-Taxation, Corruption....these are issues worth attacking.
What a sick game our political process has become.
Our MP's have no shame. Our MP's have no backbone. Our best MP's
have surrendered to treading water in scum in hopes that somewhere
along the line they can make the slightest difference. It's their only
hope.
Our system must change - these are most desperate and discouraging
times. I hope Hockey Canada meets with government officials tomorrow
and tells them to go screw themselves and turn their attention to things
that matter.
Having said that , I am not a regular Oprah watcher...but I caught bits
of her show today - and I marvel at the inner strength exhibitted by
some. There was a woman whose husband killed their four kids and
then himself; there were two young boys with artificial limbs and
several others who had overcome tremendous difficulties and
challenges and who now were leading meaningful lives. The human
spirit is a wonderous, inspiring thing.
Now...to the truly important...let me just say that golf is a spectacular
game ! After playing nine holes at Riverhills a couple of weeks ago -
last Saturday morning I played my first 18 at Penn Hills in Shubenacadie.
I will readily admit to dragging my heinie around the last two or three holes,
Penn Hills is a good hike when you're in good shape but boy it was great
to be back playing again. Terry and Kelvin - Doug pooped out on us -it
was like we'd never stopped. Some really good shots hit - some atrocious
shots hit - some great one liners - some great laughs - that's what its all
about. By the way..professional, custom fitting is the only way to go.
Dana Wong at the Village Golf Shop in New Minas put together a set of
clubs for me this spring - and I'm telling here and now - what a difference.
Clubs designed to make me better as opposed to clubs designed to be sort of
like clubs designed to make a PGA tour player better. Call Dana today.
Seriously.
Gotta Go....the Sens and Devils are about to start..as are the Jays and
Indians...What a Raptors game last night...
Til next time...Bless
Don